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I'm Li, a parent- teacher educator and trainer.

Welcome to The Present Parenting Solutions. If you are having issues or need parental support, just contact us; let us be your safe place. 

June 12, 2017

Hi, Mama and Papa. Tell me about the last time you blew up. Or the last time your children misbehaved.  How did YOU react?

Now recall for me what exactly happened about thirty minutes before the misbehavior?

If you can tell me what happened in detail, I can poi...

June 6, 2017

You’ve read about positive discipline but you feel that isn’t your style.  You want things done and followed at home, but you are so used to the only way you know- raising your voice or yelling.

For the gentle parents club, they’d usually start with a calm reminder, kee...

June 4, 2017

We’ve had our child say these lines at some point in our lives.

 And to settle things, we would go for the only way we know- offer an incentive or for some, utter a threat.

Here’s the scoop on tantrums and meltdowns. Pay attention as knowing the difference and the detail...

May 31, 2017

Ano ba Ibig- Sabihin ng Pagiging ‘Emotionally Responsive’?

Isa sa madalas nating makalimutan bilang magulang ay maging emotionally responsive sa ating bagets. It is one of the most crucial brain- based strategies according to psychotherapist/ author Dr. Tina Payne Bryso...

May 15, 2017

In my previous blog on being emotionally responsive, we talked about how we can build attachment and lasting relationships with our child by addressing the emotion first, the behavior later.

One of our duties is to establish a safe, sensitive and predictable environment...

May 5, 2017

You’re right. Parenting does not have to be so hard, so let’s just give what our kids want when they cry for or demand  some little toy or chocolates, right? For all it’s worth, just give it- that will be a golden. five-minute pause- ten, if we’re lucky.

Sorry, let’s do...

May 1, 2017

A pressing, painful truth in our duties as parents is that we almost always forget to be emotionally responsive to our child.

It is one of the most crucial brain-based strategies according to Dr Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D. (author of No-Drama Discipline and co-author of Th...

April 27, 2017

‘Unexpected’ Happens

It was early June when we got a call from my husband’s company that he’ll be deployed in another country in September. Ready for a new adventure, we got rid of our house stuff, said the necessary goodbye’s to the school I worked in and to our friend...

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All contents in this Website are for informational purposes only and should not be considered a specific diagnosis or treatment plan for any individual situation.  Always seek the direct advice of professionals in connection with any questions or issues you may have about serious, life-threatening or trauma-related matters regarding yourself, your child, or family life. Pictures in the website are models, and do not depict the situation mentioned in the blogs.

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