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I'm Li, a parent- teacher educator and trainer.

Welcome to The Present Parenting Solutions. If you are having issues or need parental support, just contact us; let us be your safe place. 

August 12, 2017

Ever notice your child’s ‘manipulative behavior’? Do you know that it is often us that nurtures it? Here are a few parenting traps compiled from the Positive Parenting Program I’d like to share with you.

Accidental rewards

So the little one’s tantrums would stop, we give...

July 22, 2017

In my quest to learn and get hold of resources- as many as my heart and brain can accommodate- I came across the Triple P (Positive Parenting Program). My friend who is a mental health consultant in the U.S.A. told me about it. She shared with me its aims, which are to...

July 19, 2017

It’s bedtime, and the only thing you want is your child to sleep so you can finish your stuff.

You want to implement your sleep training routines, yet your child keeps testing you. I know you said no more toys in bed. Quiet time. Don’t make eye- contact.

Between the feed...

June 28, 2017

Many who have not seen the ‘light’ think that setting limits is mainly barking commands. And a lot think that the meaner and bigger the voice is, and the more frequent the commands are repeated, then limits are tightened. This sergeant type of parenting is setting up f...

June 25, 2017

So many goings-on, so much thinking to do, and I feel stuck in the cycle of taking care of my little boy, conjuring meal ideas, cleaning up, repeated lots of times in a day. My little ball of energy has been sucking the power out of me too with us singing and dancing t...

June 18, 2017


Going back to my previous posts, we mentioned how important it is to have a predictable environment- where you have set the routines for your child, and he knows what is going to happen most of the time, and has things to look forward to. It is simply bec...

June 15, 2017

Everything I learned in motherhood, on being all generous and selfless in the most practical sense, I learned from my two friends- 1: Logical and firm, loving limits, and 2: Selfless love.

On my first year of living in Thailand, I had the chance to meet Ate Chelle- my a...

June 15, 2017

I have no words to express my gratitude to have my child be in a setting where there is much love that goes around- especially from his grandparents. We went home months ago to settle and start anew from over 8 years overseas. My mom and dad would carve out time for me...

June 15, 2017

Most of us, in our tiredness, and sometimes in our rush to get our child to sleep so we can do the rest of the chores or have me-time, leave out that crucial, special moment of our child’s last minutes awake. I too have long been guilty as I breastfed my son to sleep w...

June 13, 2017

Your child is just turning 4 years old but in those 40-plus-months you’ve encountered many, many issues that question your parenting skills. You’ve read parenting articles- some worked, a lot didn’t. You ask yourself- Is it me or my child?

Trust in Your Child’s Goodness


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